hindsight is 20-20

Last night, I found it hard to go to sleep. So I started reminiscing about life. I don’t know what got me started, but I started thinking about the past November through January. And as I lay there, supposedly trying to sleep, I couldn’t help but literally laughing out loud about the past. I’m sure some of you know, and I have briefly referred to in the past, how Rob and I got engaged on November 6 and got married on January 2. It was quite the speedy turn around. But last night I was remembering in detail all the frustrations and obstacles that came up along the way, and in hindsight, it’s a really funny story. Continue reading “hindsight is 20-20” »

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hunting the good stuff

There are three things (other than family and friends) that I miss about America. Continue reading “hunting the good stuff” »

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the joy of cooking

I have figured something out about myself.  When I have something that I absolutely need to get done, it is not until I have something else that I absolutely have to get done that I will do the first thing.  Continue reading “the joy of cooking” »

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Grandmothers aren’t just for pinching your cheeks

Korea just keeps getting more and more interesting. The other day, it took me thirty minutes and me banging my head on the floor 12 times to figure out how to work our oven. Also, I got a green egg at a Korean restaurant. I don’t think it was supposed to be that way and I decided it might be best not to eat it.

On the other hand, I have found that my Korean cell phone is super advanced. Not only can I handwrite my text messages on the screen, but the games on my phone are like games on the Wii! The phone is basically the controller, and you move it every which way to play the game! I thought it was so cool.

I am really liking Korea. I am slowly but surely getting settled in to our new apartment, which is also filled with fun high-tech things. But I am really missing my family in the states. It’s always nice to get to talk to them at least every other day, but nothing quite measures up to being able to call your mom when you forget the specifics on how to make a recipe but you can’t because its 3 am where she lives.

Before I left for Korea, I got a letter from my grandmother.  My grandmother is the only grandparent I have living on either side, so my relationship with her is very important to me.  We have always had a good relationship.  When I was younger, like 5 to 10 years old, I would stay with her and Papa a lot when my parents were out of town.  I remember we would always play cards together, and as she still likes to remind me, I would always cheat.  Of course, my Nanny being the spry, outspoken woman that she is, would always call me out on it. And we would bicker back and forth until Papa would come in laughing that a grandmother and grandchild were fussing about cheating. But it was always done in love :)

The letter that my grandmother wrote me was very heartfelt. I cherished it so much that I even stuck it in my Bible and brought it to Korea with me.  In it, she said something that she has said since Rob and I got engaged in November.  And this is one of those pieces of advice that I have really remembered every day and keep it deep in my heart.

She says, “always cherish every moment you have together because you never know when it is going to end.” Now, this is one of those phrases that would be easy to hear, agree with, and move on with your life.  But the difference is that I know my Nanny. And every time she has said it and I have seen her face, I see her talking from her soul from 60 years of marriage. Ever since my Papa died, Nanny always loves reminiscing about being with him. And you can tell that she loved, and still does love, him and always will. You can see in her eyes 60 years of good days and bad, sickness and health, and till death do us part. You can see it in her eyes and hear it in her voice. And you know that those words are worth a lifetime of happiness.

The best things in life are free.

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A Run-In with the Korean Cops

They said that the cops here in Korea never actually pulled people over.  They said that they would just drive around with their lights on acting like they were doing their job.  Our first mistake was believing them. Continue reading “A Run-In with the Korean Cops” »

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the marketplace experience

I have experienced my first Korean church service. On Saturday, Rob and I were walking around outside of Camp Humphreys, and we walked by a little church called Harvest Baptist Church. There was a Korean man walking out of the building, and so I stopped and asked him what time church was and if it was in English. Continue reading “the marketplace experience” »

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Korea: The beginning of an adventure

I am in Korea now. I don’t think I realized just how large of a language barrier there was until I got here. In the airport, it wasn’t so bad. All the signs had Korean and English, so it was really easy to get around. But catching the bus was a whole different story… Continue reading “Korea: The beginning of an adventure” »

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sweet southern comfort

You know that you live in the south when you go to the refrigerator and pick up a sour cream container expecting there to be leftovers in it, and it’s actually sour cream. What a disappointment. I can’t tell you how many containers are in my refrigerator right now labeled Cool Whip or Butterball Turkey and contain lasagna or spicy grits from yesterday’s brunch. That’s the best thing ever. Every time you open a lid, it’s like Christmas morning! Continue reading “sweet southern comfort” »

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Saving and Spending

Women are stereotyped. People are always saying how the men bring home the bacon, but the women use it all before the man can have any (referring to how the woman spends all the money that the man makes before he can.) I would like to argue the invalidity of this stereotype. Continue reading “Saving and Spending” »

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fighting a good fight

Sadly, I have had some sad goodbyes with fellow grocery items that I have bought. Apparently, when the inside of the garlic turns green, it means its about to sprout! Also, the last time I looked at my potatoes in the pantry I swear they were not growing purple flowers out of them. Continue reading “fighting a good fight” »

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